There is an old saying that even Brahma , the god of gods couldnot understand women. Is it true ? Definitely not. Its Oestrogen that is complicated , not the women . Do you agree ?
Its all in the brain right. The XX or XY combination in the EMBRYO that makes one female or male. So men and women are not only differ anatomically but also wired differently mentally. They see same things differently, as they feel things differently. Did you ever wonder why 90 % of prison inmates are men & majority of anxiety & eating disorders occur in female? Its because of Testosterone & Oestrogen.
Lets see this short video to know more :
Can you ever feel How a woman feels, If you are a man ?Lets hope we learn it. Our mother nature has designed us in such a way that we are aliens to each other physically & mentally. As our brains gets attracted to new things , men & women get attracted to each other but the beauty is we cannot understand each other as we are wired differently. Thats the reason they say :
‘ A woman’s best friend is other woman where as man’s best friend is a dog ‘ All the relationships revolve around just the story Testosterone & Oestrogen making men direct & expressionless personalities where as women being indirect & expressive personalities.
Most of the relationships start with love where the guy thinks she likes him based on her expression but its nature of Oestrogen to be expressive & friendly . As per Evolutionary Biology women have taken care of babies for ages ( with few exceptions ) thus they have superior skills to identify Lunch chasers for the family . It is this quality of women which make them either marry a rich guy or confident guy who has potential to take care of her children & not the handsome guy. It can happen in the movies where men’s beauty attracts women where as in outside world it rarely happens.The women mostly thinks of men’s capacity to take of her children rather than his appearence. This is the simple reason why divorce rates are alarmingly increasing in India in the recent past especially among educated , upper middle class.
It is due to her nature of being expressive , men find women attractive in the beginning only to understand soon that they are too complex to understand later. The Oestrogen is the reason for the complex neuronal wiring of women.The monthly fluctuation in the women’s mood happens with their periods called as PMS.It purely linked with hormonal fluctuations especially Oestrogen.So men be cautious before you get into a new relationship & be prepared for a rollercoaster journey ! Ha Ha Ha.. Finally remember love is not what they show in movies , so please dont get trapped in that illusion.
Lets listen to what Paul Zak , the behavioural scientist talks about the expresiveness & complexity of Oestrogen :
The topic can be discussed at lengths into writing books.
Do you agree ?
1.Why Men lie & Women cannot read maps : Allan & Barbara Pease.
Allan Pease is an Australian body language expert and author or co-author of fifteen books. Allan Pease and his wife Barbara have written 18 bestsellers – including 10 number ones – and given seminars in 70 countries.
2.Men are from Mars , Women are from venus : John Gray. He is Ph.D. & the #1 bestselling relationship author of all time. He is the author of over 20 books, including The New York Times #1 Best-Selling Relationship Book of All Time: MEN ARE FROM MARS, WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS.
3.Paul J. Zak ‘ s TED Talk. He is the founding director of the Center for Neuroeconomics Studies and a professor of economics, psychology, and management at Claremont Graduate University. He is the author of Trust Factor: The Science of Creating High-Performance Companies